From Rice to Sparklers: Wedding Send-Off Traditions at Friedman Farms
Celebrate Your Grand Exit at Our Barn Wedding Venue in Dallas, PA
At Friedman Farms, one of the most memorable moments we see at our barn weddings is the grand send-off—the moment when guests line up to cheer on the newlyweds as they begin their new journey together. While today’s couples often opt for sparkler send-offs, this tradition has deep roots that go back centuries.
Historically, guests would throw rice at weddings as a symbol of fertility, prosperity, and good fortune. This custom originated in ancient Rome, Greece, and India, where grains like rice, wheat, or millet were tossed over the bride and groom to wish them a bountiful life. In medieval Europe, it also served to ward off evil spirits and bad luck. As the tradition made its way to American weddings, rice became the go-to grain for this joyful moment.
Over time, however, practical concerns (and not the bird myth!) – like slippery floors, difficult cleanup, and modern venue restrictions – led to a shift in how couples celebrate their exit. While the symbolism of abundance and new beginnings remains, many couples now choose more visually striking and venue-friendly alternatives.
One of the most popular choices at Friedman Farms is the sparkler send-off. As the newlyweds walk hand in hand through a tunnel of sparkling lights, the moment is nothing short of magical—especially against the backdrop of our beautifully lit barn venue in Dallas, PA. Sparklers create incredible photo opportunities and add an enchanting glow to the final moments of your celebration.
Other eco-conscious options include dried flower petals, lavender buds, biodegradable confetti, or bubbles—all of which complement the rustic charm and natural setting of our venue.
From rice to sparklers – Whether you’re honoring the past with a traditional gesture or lighting up the night with sparklers, Friedman Farms provides the perfect canvas for an unforgettable send-off.
Here’s a great blog on the Do’s and Don’ts of a wedding sparkler send off!